If you are here then there must be something you are looking for to guide you into the decision of marriage. Honestly, no one can really take charge of you. I’ll suggest you believe in your intuition. Marriage is a big and beautiful promise to make for a lifetime. Sometimes you are not ready for this step, sometimes you are not sure and sometimes you are ready but, need approval. Being your well-wisher here.
Let me share the signs that tell you if you are ready.
1) YOU ARE READY FOR LIFESTYLE CHANGES.
We all know marriage comes with some sweet and sour changes in life. You are not that single individual wolf who roam around the house with no worries(not anymore) or you can do it sometimes but, that’s not the point. The point is when you live with a partner, you share the same place and you should be comfortable to live with. Owning your mess and respecting other’s living space should be in the priority. Believe me! Taking care of small things can do wonders in your married life. Mind your wet towel next time you stepped out of the shower.
2) YOU LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER.
Honestly speaking, you must be in deep, real and wild love before making the decision of marriage. There is no other way you could do this. You are making a promise of being his/her one and only. Respect keeps things working even when you seem to not like each other. You cannot like somebody all the time and that’s when respect holds your precious connection. Where there are love and respect, there is a happy married life.
3) YOU ARE READY TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.
Okay! No way to freak you out. It’s not like somebody is going to put you inside the jail or living cage. RESPONSIBILITY is the word, that makes people feel bound and unattractive for the definite person but, let’s see the positive side of it. You are taking responsibility for your loved one’s heart and nothing else. He/she is choosing you as the life partner and not others. Being kind and generous toward each other will help you live an awesome life.
4) YOU CAN COOK.
Most important!!! No matter if you are a woman or a man. You must learn cooking before marriage because of dude!!! you guys need food to do stuff. I mean arguments, fights and all 😍 Kitchen is the place where there is an open door of each other’s heart every damn time. Who doesn’t like delicious food!?
5) YOU SEE YOURSELF AS A LOVING WIFE/HUSBAND
Picturing yourself as a loving husband/wife is the first step our mind does when we think of marriage. Live that picture, get involved in that imaginative life, believe in your intuitive power and lost yourself living it without any fear and thinking. Ask yourself. Are you happy there? You know the person better than anyone in this world and that is your superpower to choose whether it’s the right choice or not.
6) YOU ARE READY TO LEARN NEW THINGS.
Well well well. Here we are at the most exciting part of marriage life. Only if you like to learn new things. It could be anything from emotionally, spiritually and physically(if you know). The charm of marriage life is this when everyone wants to taste it but, these days not everyone is much courageous to take the load. Yea! That’s why we are here. Be open to new possibilities and be always ready to learn and teach each other goodness.
7) YOU SEEK BALANCE AND STABILITY IN LIFE.
We all know, there is a sense of security in marriage life. To keep life balanced and stable many times we choose marriage. It could be because of anything like you are tired of…example- stupid relationships or sense of loneliness. Marriage is a wonderful path to share with someone you adore❤
8) YOU KNOW “YOU BOTH ARE MEANT FOR EACH OTHER”.
It’s not about how similar choices you both have or how perfect you are for each other because you both can be totally opposite and weird but, still in love with each other madly. What works for the relationship is respect and love (back to point number 2). You must be each other friends and not owners to admire this bond gracefully.🧡
Remember- Love them and set them free.✨
Many blessings xx
Hare Krishna 🌙